Often, emotional disappointment comes from students taking risks, which can be a good thing! Parents want their students to dream big and work toward achieving their goals. It takes confidence and initiative to try out for a team, risk rejection making new friends, or apply for an internship. But students who stretch for something are willing to go beyond their comfort zone and try new things, which will ultimately help them achieve success in their journey after high school.
Students today can feel a great deal of pressure to succeed at everything they do, which can lead to anxiety.
Students who learn how to manage disappointment and overcome negative feelings develop resiliency, an important soft skill that will help them throughout their life. Resilient students can handle adversity and bounce back from disappointment. They have the skills to overcome life’s setbacks and thrive under different circumstances.
Learning how to respond to disappointment also builds problem-solving and adaptability skills. Students who face disappointment learn how to adjust their expectations and adapt to a change in plans. They can also problem solve to determine how to overcome barriers that may be standing in the way of achieving their goals.
For example, if they don’t achieve their desired goal because they didn’t have time to study or practice, they can take a hard look at their schedule and manage their activities to find time to better prepare in the future.